Which cheater are you?

Cheating in a relationship is the worst thing anyone can do! Why not just save all the heartache and break up before you start cheating? Right?

Cheating is done for many reasons beleive it or not. And not all the time we should be ready with our torches and gasoline. Some cheaters are just victims of circumsrances. So which cheater are you familiar with?

Cheater #1. They are just out there to score. They aren't ready for a serious relationship, so they play the field. Its fun to them to see how many partners they can have. Although it would be easier and less painful if they would just tell this to their partners before the deed is done. Sometimes the tactics of getting someone in the bed is even more fun for them. They like the chase and conquer.

Cheater #2 is in love with you, wants a family, marriage, the whole pretty picture! But the minute you stop giving them the attention that they need and want from you they start to feel neglected. They feel lonely, and the minute someone else comes aling and strokes their ego, they think they have fallen in love all over again with someone new. They have gotten so caught up in the things they were missing with you, that they forget all the things they already had and that this new love doesn't have. Cheater# 2 is an emotional cheater which means they were looking for fulfillment of the heart. Their emotions got the best of them. Don't look for cheater #2 to come running back. Once you break their heart they are gone forever!

Cheater# 3!...well, well, well. Cheater #3 is a risque person. They love their partners but in the end, if someone comes around that looks a bit different, or better, they will stray. But its all in the name of sex. See, cheater #3 will never leave their partners. This new fling will only be used for sex. And as soon as they start wanting more, cheater #3 is out the door! There is too much to lose at home, but play time has never hurt anybody....so they think! Cheater #3 will come back home. The real question is will you let them?

Maybe you are a cheater, perhaps you've been cheated on. Possibly, you know of someone who has cheated. Which ever type of cheater it is. Being put in that situation us no fun and games to the victims. Some have families at stake. Its so important to open and honest in a relationship. Especially if you claim to love that special someone. Don't hurt them and your family over an ego trip or an emotional moment. Talk things through with someone before going down that road.